The “I don’t give a F-ck” Mindset

Most people in this world definitely as teenagers never learned how to simply not care about other peoples opinions. In fact, google agrees with me that the number one thing holding people back from achieving what they want isn't the struggle but what people think and how it will affect their social image, especially if they were pretty revered throughout school.

My Thoughts 🧠

It's ridiculous people could be using their school years to get ahead of the rest in this marathon of life but no one wants to anymore. Yeah there are going to be people who hate but don't let it pull you down absorb it and use it as energy. Chances are the people who are the most judgmental are typically the most insecure ones even if it may not seem like it.

How 🤔

My advice to you is too find somebody or a group of people who you have that brotherhood or sisterhood connection with. You need to unlock a barrier within yourself to truly be free and just do whatever the heck you want. These people can help you with that by bringing you up. Keep in mind always that the worst possible outcome of something is never actually what will happen. You need to get used to the feeling of rejection and disagreement by putting yourself out there. Not everyone will agree nor disagree with what you have to say.

Conclusion

These things take time to develop, the key is to build up your confidence. Start something you obviously know will be good for you such as hitting the gym regularly. You need to practice holding conversations and speaking with confidence and you will eventually to just not care about what people think and to just live with no regrets. Thanks for reading and stay safe.